Do you understand how things affect your children? You might think you do. You might think you’re aware of how children deal with tragedy, loss, a breakup, divorce, bullying, but you’d be surprised. You might be caught unaware by their lack of understanding or just how tuned into the situation they actually are. By understanding how children are affected by certain situations you can help them deal with it and hopefully move on.

Don’t think for a second that a child doesn’t know what a divorce is. Whether they understand the consequences of it is a different question, but they certainly are aware of how it changes the family dynamic. And why wouldn’t they? After all, in a world where forty-five percent of marriages end, it’s highly likely that some of their friends will have divorced parents. Kids talk so they’ll know what to expect, and they might be able to deal with it more effectively than you think. That’s why it might be best to remain as open as possible with your children through a divorce proceeding. If you use the right divorce law firm, you’ll even find that your lawyer protects them from the ugliness of the situation while helping you explain to them what’s happening.

There are plenty of parents who think that bullying is something that kids should figure out for themselves. We should just let the rules of the playground take over and wait for the situation to resolve itself. They’ll be stronger because of it and able to deal with their own problems. But what if they can’t? Research shows that the impact of bullying can last for years and often extends well into adult life. Kids can develop spouts of depression, and they might even suffer from what can only be described as PTSD. That’s why you need to monitor the situation carefully if you think your child is being bullied.

According to research children understand death and the concept of mortality at around four years of age. This is actually a rather morbid but smart reason for getting a pet. It teaches kids about mortality before they actually lose a grandparent or someone else close to them. By age four you can explain to your child that someone has passed on from this world. The approach you want to take to this is entirely up to you. But it can be useful to introduce a concept similar to heaven even if you’re not religious. This can help them with the grieving process because they know that somewhere the person they lost is happy.

Moving Away

If you are planning on moving with kids, you might want to do it while they’re still young. Don’t wait until they enter the teens because, by this point, they are already building their social world and creating a structure they can rely on. Now, they can bounce back and form new friendships and relationships even as they’re older. But it can be a shock to the systems, and you could find yourself in a lot of arguments, simply because they don’t understand how to deal with such an abrupt change to their life.

Hopefully, helps you understand how some serious issues affect your child’s life and view these difficulties through their eyes.



06/07/2017 6:04am

Yes, your child could be your eye to look differently at the same world or just to see complete different world.

07/13/2017 7:12am

This is a really good post and it has some seriously important content on it. I will be sharing this post with others so that they too may reap its benefits.


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